Chevron and Yerushalayim Parshas Pinchas

For the past few years, our shul has conducted an auction on Simchas Torah. Though it was new for our shul, the custom of auctioning honors on Simchas Torah goes back hundreds of years and is fairly standard in many shuls. What is not so standard, and something that I believe is unique to Ner Tamid, is that in addition to auctioning off honors, we also auction off the opportunity to choose a sermon topic for one Shabbos. This year, the highest bidder for choosing a sermon topic was Rabbanit Ahava Schachter-Zarembski.

After Simchas Torah, she told me she purchased it for her son, Meshullam, who is eight years old. Last time a parent bought this opportunity for a child, the sermon topic I was given was Marvel vs. DC, which is a far more controversial topic than I ever realized. So Meshullam comes to my office, we make some small talk, and then I ask him, what should I speak about? I’m wondering to myself which videogames he’s into, maybe he’s a sports fan, maybe fantasy books.

Meshullam says, “Can you please speak about Chevron?”

Chevron the superhero or do you actually mean Chevron the ancient city in Israel?

Yes, Chevron the ancient city in Israel.

Well, Meshullam and his brother and mother are moving to Israel in a little over a week, and so it’s time for me to follow through and give a sermon about Chevron. Are you ready, Meshullam? Here we go.

In 1929, one of the most vicious pogroms took place in Israel. Israel was never a safe place for the Jewish People and every now and then, there were attacks on Jews. But as Zionism gathered steam, the Arab population grew quite nervous about the growth of the Jewish community in the Holy Land. On August 24, 1929, a rumor was spread that the Jewish People were trying to take over the Temple Mount. At 8:30 AM, as many men were making their way to shul for Shabbos morning davening, a terrible massacre began. I will omit the details due to the age of the crowd, but 69 Jews lost their lives that day. There had been a Jewish community in Chevron for over 800 years, but after this massacre every single Jew left.

Rav Avraham Yitzchak Kook was the chief rabbi of Israel at the time. When he heard what was taking place he immediately ran to the British High Commissioner, Sir Harry Luke, begging him to send his troops to intercede. The High Commissioner refused. A few days later, the High Commissioner came to visit Rav Kook and put out his hand to greet him. Rav Kook, who was known to be the most loving and forgiving person, refused to shake his hand, stating that he would not shake a hand covered in Jewish blood. (Rabbi Simcha Raz)

Rav Kook gathered the Jewish community together for a memorial service and shared the following message: “The holy martyrs of Chevron do not need a ‘memorial’ service,” he announced. “The Jewish people can never forget the holy and pure souls who were slaughtered by those murderers and vile thugs. Rather, we must remember and remind the Jewish people not to forget the city of the patriarchs. Am Yisrael must know what Chevron means to us.”

He continued: “We have an ancient tradition:‘Maaseh avos, siman lebanim—The actions of the fathers are signs for their descendants.’ When the weak-hearted meraglim, the biblical spies, arrived at Chevron, they were frightened by the fierce nations inhabiting the land. But Calev quieted the people for Moshe. “We must go forth and conquer the land,” he said. “We can prevail!” (Bamidbar, 13:30).”

Concluded Rav Kook: “Despite the terrible tragedy that took place in Chevron, we hereby announce to the world, ‘Our strength is now like our strength was then!’ We will not abandon our holy places and sacred aspirations. Chevron is the city of our fathers and mothers, of Mearas HaMachpela [where our forefathers are buried] … It is the city of King David —the cradle of our sovereign monarchy.  עוד תבנהit will yet be rebuiltJewish Chevron will be built again, in all its honor and glory!”

For almost 40 years Rav Kooks’ words rang hollow. Despite the rich history of the city dating all the way back to Avraham Avinu, despite the many whose parents lived in that holy city for over a thousand years, Chevron did not have a single Jewish resident. Until 1967.

After the Six-Day War, Chevron was under Jewish control. However, the government and army prevented any Jews from entering the city. Not to be deterred, a woman by the name of Sarah Nachshon could not be held back. She led a group to the outskirts of the city and established a new Jewish city called Kiryat Arba. But this holy and determined woman was not satisfied. So a little while later, she and a group of women and their children slipped into Beit Haddassah, a deserted hospital in Chevron, and refused to leave until the government allowed them to live in Chevron. The government assumed that after a while the women would give up and leave. But they didn’t. And after a full year of living in this hospital, the government relented and allowed for the Jewish community of Chevron to be rebuilt.

While she was leading this sit-in or live-in in Beit Hadassah, Sarah Nachshon gave birth to a son. And she thought to herself, how can I be so close to the burial place of Avraham Avinu, the first Jew to ever have a Bris, and not have my son’s circumcision in Avraham’s burial place, the Mearas Hamachpeilah? Sure enough, their son, Avraham Yedidia, was circumcised in the Tombs of the Patriarchs.

Tragically, a few months later, this son died. Sarah Nachshon was determined to bury the baby in Chevron’s ancient Jewish cemetery. The government adamantly refused. It would cause an uproar among the Arabs living there. The army was instructed to block the road to the Jewish cemetery knowing that she would try to bury her son. Sure enough, she showed up, carrying her deceased infant in a tallis. The instructions from Tel Aviv were to prevent her from going through. But the soldiers refused. And Avraham Yedidia Nachshon was buried by his mother, Sarah, in the ancient Jewish cemetery of Chevron.

Rav Kook was right. It is a city of strength. And it was a city that would ultimately be rebuilt. Sarah Nachshon, following in the footsteps of King David, in the footsteps of Calev, in the footsteps of Avraham, rebuilt the city of Chevron.

But the question is why? That’s Meshullam’s question. Why have Jews always been so obsessed with this city? Why did Sarah Nachshon go to such great lengths to resettle the city? Why did a small population of Jews live in a predominantly Arab city for centuries? Why did King David need to go there to start his monarchy? Why did Calev pray there? Why did Avraham go to great lengths to bury his wife there? You would imagine all of this should have taken place in Jerusalem. Is that not our holiest city? What is the significance of this city of Chevron?

Here’s where we get a little more mystical, so buckle up. The root of the name Yerushalayim is shalom, which means peace and harmony. The root of the name Chevron is chibur, which means joining together. Both cities represent Divine connection, but that’s where the commonalities end.

Yerushalayim’s most famous structure, the Bais Hamikdash, stood atop a mountain. Chevron’s most famous structure, the burial place of our forefathers is a cave, Mearat Hamachpeila, literally the double cave. It’s called a double cave because it is a cave within a cave. One city’s center was open and elevated, the other city’s center is hidden deep under the ground.

Another contrast – We know of the many prayers said in Yerushalayim, by King David, by King Solomon, by Ezra. But in Chevron, there is mysterious silence. Avraham goes there to eulogize his wife, but the Torah makes no mention of what he says. We know that Calev goes there to pray for strength, but his prayer is only subtly alluded to the text and nothing more.

Rav Moshe Wolfson suggests that while Yerushalayim and Chevron are both cities of connection, Yerushalayim represents an overt and tangible connection to the Divine, whereas Chevron represents the hidden connection.

This idea, I believe, is alluded to in a rather strange passage in the ancient Medrashic work, Yalkut Shimoni. It relates how Adam was looking for a place to bury his wife, Eve. He walked by Chevron, and he smelled a smell that he recognized from the past; Chevron smelled like the Garden of Eden. The Medrash tells us that he started digging so he could reach Gan Eden, but an angel made him stop.

This story represents the essence of Chevron. In Jerusalem you would hear the music of the Leviim and see the beauty of the Temple. In Chevron, you would hear silence and stare at a rocky terrain. The angel prevented Adam from digging all the way to Gan Eden, because Chevron is needed to remind us that there is a form of spirituality, I would argue a more elevated form of spirituality, that remains hidden away.

We live in an era of extreme superficiality. Whether it’s social media which filters away our flaws, or it’s the unprecedented materialism that we both enjoy and are overwhelmed by. In a world of so much externality, we crave for something deeper. Most people will tell you the antidote to superficiality is being authentic, being real, saying whatever is on your mind, sharing and over-sharing until there is nothing hidden at all.

But Chevron tells us that is wrong. And I’ll share personally here – as someone who tries to share their inner world with others, you, I will tell you that I often second-guess myself. I do find value in sharing my inner experience but sometimes it leaves me depleted, empty.

We are not supposed to dig all the way to Gan Eden; we need to appreciate the rich spiritual world that lives inside.

Those feelings of intense emotions that you cannot articulate, the small joys that no one else will understand, the deep pain which no one can relate to, the yearnings for G-d and for growth, as fleeting as they may be, Chevron reminds us to savor them, to swish them around in our mind and our heart, to allow them to breathe in their natural hidden habitat. That’s where real spirituality lives and thrives; hidden away. I used to think it was a tragedy that there are parts of us that can never be understood by others. But I was wrong. Chevron teaches us that this part of us, that cannot be shared, is a gift from G-d.

Meshullam, I imagine you chose this topic of Chevron because someone you know quite well embodies these ideas – your mother. Like Calev, she is a fighter and able to hold her own. Like Sarah Nachshon she yearns to live in holiness as difficult as it may be, and that’s why you and your family are making Aliyah. And like the city itself, she has a deep and powerful inner world. We have had the opportunity to learn from your mother – she has given numerous classes in our shul during your short time here. Thank you for giving us a taste of Chevron here in Baltimore. And we wish you so much success in Israel.

 

We are in the midst of the Three Weeks. It’s a time we mourn for the loss of the Bais Hamikdash, that holy edifice in Yerushalayim, that was destroyed. There is only one ancient building from the times of the Temple that has not been destroyed, and that is – Mearat Hamachpeila in Chevron. Being authentic and ‘putting it out there’ may feel strong, but it’s depleting, and ultimately, it is susceptible to destruction. Our inner world, our precious yearnings and feelings, our Neshama, our hidden connection to G-d, like the city of Chevron, is unbreakable and can never be destroyed.

 

 

Bilaam 2025   Parshas Balak

Bilaam 2025 Parshas Balak

What a time to be alive.

I spent the past week reading – that is my ideal vacation. I don’t need to go anywhere fancy; I just need a stack of books. News alert, your rabbi is a big nerd.

Most of the books I read were about antisemitism. Second news alert, your rabbi has a really warped sense of what a relaxing vacation should look like.

In these books on antisemitism there were a few consistent themes. One, we were hated throughout almost all of history. Two, it wasn’t that hard to act out on antisemitism. If someone did not like us, they would attack us. It was as simple as that.

Nowadays, we spend so much time discussing how to combat antisemitism. Imagine discussing how to fight antisemitism with your great-great-grandparents. You know how they combatted antisemitism a hundred years ago? They ran for their lives.

But now, our enemies cannot just attack us; we have an army that fights back. Jihadists like Ahmed Al-Sharaa, the leader of Syria, are meekly turning to Israel with the hope that Israel will offer them peace. We have come to a point where we are so strong, that one of the roles of the IDF is to restrain Jews from fighting back.

What a time to be alive.

I believe the last time we had such security, security to the point that the nations around us were scared to attack us, probably goes back 3297 years to the year 1272 BCE, the year the Jewish People stood on the banks of the Jordan, after defeating the nations of Sichon and Og, the two mightiest armies in the region.

And here’s where history has a funny way of repeating itself. What do you do when you can’t attack with knives and swords? What do you do when your nuclear capabilities are severely limited and your weaponry can’t match up to the Jewish State?

You start a war of words.

Moav and Midian, two countries who hated the Jewish People, realized they did not stand a chance going to battle against the Jews, and so they employed Bilaam, a master orator, to disparage the Jewish People, to curse them and to highlight their every flaw.

What’s fascinating is that if you review many of the classical commentators, they all ask variations of the same question: Who cares if Bilaam cursed the Jewish People? Why do we have an entire Torah portion dedicated to this lowlife? Why does G-d perform crazy miracles, like a talking donkey and preventing Bilaam from cursing the Jews? What’s the big deal?

I don’t blame these rabbis from the Middle Ages for asking this question. Because they lived in a time when if someone did not like us, they killed us. Our enemies did not have to resort to words to hurt us. But I don’t think you and I have this question. Because we live in a time in which they cannot just attack us physically. And so instead, we have experienced time and time again, the lethal power of words.

  • How chants of “From the River to Sea,” on college campuses led to physical violence against Jewish students.
  • How groups like In Our Lifetime that chant, “Globalize the Intifada,” then go ahead and list addresses of major Jewish organizations and leaders, all but telling their followers to take “justice” into their own hands.
  • How on May 20th, the under-secretary-general of the UN issued a dire warning on a BBC interview how “there were 18,000 Gazan babies who would die in 48 hours.” And although the absurd claim was immediately debunked, the next day, two Israeli embassy staffers were shot dead in Washington, DC.
  • How just a few days later, a man who yelled, “How many children [have] you killed?” firebombed a group of Jews in Boulder, Colorado, injuring 15 people, and ultimately, killing Karen Diamon.

One commentator understood this. The Abarbanel argues that Bilaam’s curses had no power at all. But had he been successful in cursing the Jewish People it would have galvanized the enemies of the Jews to attack them physically. In 2025, we know all too well what that looks like.

And so instead of just ignoring the “meaningless” words of Bilaam, the Torah records this entire episode, as if to say, there will be a time, thousands of years from now, when the Jewish People will once again be in a position of power, the Jewish People will once again be in a position in which our enemies will be scared to attack, but there will be Bilaams who will attack you with words – Bilaams like Mahmoud Khalil in Columbia chanting death to the Jews, or Bilaams like Tucker Carlson or Candace Owens who platform antisemitic conspiracy theories, or Bilaams like Kanye West and the rapper, Vylan, who lace their music with hatred. The story of Bilaam is a warning – do not ignore those hateful words; they have power.

To further illustrate how powerful words can be, G-d does something rather intriguing. G-d does not just prevent Bilaam from speaking, Bilaam is not kicked off of Twitter and forced to stop sharing his hate. Instead, G-d turns Bilaam’s curses into blessings. Rashi explains that G-d took each of Bilaam’s attempted curses and showed how that curse can actually be a blessing.

If Bilaam were alive in 2025, it does not take much of an imagination to know what he would want to say. I imagine that if Bilaam were around today, he would probably try to claim the Jewish People have outsized influence and control world politics. He would probably claim that we are racist. And he would probably claim that the IDF kills Arabs indiscriminately.

If Bilaam were alive in 2025, if G-d were to take his curses and turn them into blessings, this is probably how Bilaam’s curses-turned-blessings would sound:

“Hen am l’vadad yishkon, it is a nation that lives alone.” The Jewish People are not looking for world dominion; they are looking to be left alone, to live in peace. There are no Elders of Zion plotting world dominion. The wealthiest people on earth are not Jews. But the Jews do indeed have an outsized influence. We have made outsized contributions to the field of life-saving medicine. We have an outsized representation in the realm of social justice. We give more dollars per capita to charity than any other faith group. Our stated mission is to support and elevate the nations around us. Bilaam of 2025 would affirm the outsized positive influence of our nation.

He would then be forced to continue:

Mah tovu oholecha, how beautiful are your tents!” Like the tents of Avraham, opened on four sides to every passerby regardless of their faith, regardless of their race. Judaism is not racist. On the contrary, it is the only faith that believes that it does not have a monopoly on heaven. Ours is a tradition that does not call others dhimmis or sinners; instead it coins terms like tzadikei umos ha’olam, righteous gentiles. Spend a moment in Israel and you will meet millions Jews of all colors.

And then finally, Bilaam of 2025 would concede:

Kara shachav ka’ari, the Jewish People crouch like a lion.” That yes, we attack, yes, we fight, yes, we bomb. But our preferred state is that of a crouching lion, of not attacking at all. As Paul Johnson once noted, it was the Jews who taught the world that peace is not a sign of weakness, it is a sign of strength. In our tradition, the word we use for peace, Shalom, is also a name of G-d. We cannot finish a single prayer without beseeching G-d for peace. We are obsessed with peace.

Sometimes we have to kill. And sometimes our army makes mistakes, let’s be honest with ourselves. But warfare as a value?! Killing children as something to glorify?! There is nothing further than the truth. As Golda Meir so beautifully put it, “We will perhaps in time be able to forgive the Arabs for killing our sons, but it will be harder for us to forgive them for having forced us to kill their sons.”

What a time to be alive.

Like the times of the Bilaam of old, we live in a time of unprecedented Jewish strength.

Like the times of the Bilaam of old, we live in a time when our enemies must resort to words – dangerous, hateful, lethal words.

Like the times of the Bilaam of old, we have internalized the message of our parsha; we know how dangerous those words can be, and we must fight them at every turn.

May we merit to live in a time in which all of Bilaam’s blessings come true, a time in which dorach kochav mi’Yaakov, a Messianic star will shoot forth from Yaakov, and the Jewish value of peace will reign supreme.